Monday, February 25, 2013

Being a Mom

After living in our magic bubble at Disneyland for 4 days then coming home to reality I was having a hard time adjusting. I was excited to see the other 2 kids, but man oh man, they've been hard for me. Lindsey was being a 2 yr old and Chelsea started projectile vomiting. I was thin on patience and having a rough time enjoying being a mom. My Mom and Sara (and cute chubby Zane) came to visit for the day last Thursday and they helped me to like my kids again and get me out of my slump. It was so nice to have them here and to visit. Sara highlighted and cut my hair which felt so nice. We played with the kids and just hung out here. I tried a new recipe on them, Cashew Chicken off Pinterest, but it wasn't that good. I won't make it again. They were good sports to be my guinea pigs though. They left around 7pm to go home. It was snowing on the pass so we were hoping roads would be okay for them (they made it home safely). Kyle took Kate to her basketball practice and also took Preston and Lindsey. I took Chelsea and went to the Stake Center to play basketball, it was fun. After today, I was ready for the next day with a much better attitude. Good thing because...

Chelsea woke up a little after 6am (too early!). I brought her in bed with me until I decided I better start getting ready. Chelsea was in the tub taking a bath while I was fixing kids' hair, brushing teeth and getting clothes out for kids before school. I looked at Chelsea and she was sitting in brown water with poop blobs in it. Gross!!! She had pooped and it was repulsive. I wish I took a picture. I whisked her out of the tub, scrubbed it down and then gave her another bath. Preston had thrown up in his bed from coughing so much last night and so I had to get his sheets off his bed. We hurried downstairs for breakfast. My Mom had given me a loaf of her homemade cinnamon bread so I made french toast with it. Yum. While the kids were eating I made Preston and Kate's lunches. I had remembered Kate didn't finish her homework that was due today so she was hurrying and trying to finish it before and after eating breakfast. Then, I went to feed Chelsea breakfast and she had fallen asleep since she was up so early. It was quite the morning. Then later that morning, while talking to my Mom on the phone, the power went out. Luckily, it came right back on. But it was quite the day! Amazingly, I kept my patience through it all thanks to my Mom and Sara recharging me with their visit. I'm thankful for my family. Being a mom is hard work! But like my Mom and others say, "you will miss it." And I know I will. I keep telling myself to enjoy these moments, good and bad. I love what President Uchtdorf said in his October conference talk, "Life is not meant to be appreciated only in retrospect." So true.


5 Fabulous Comments:

Granny DeeAnn said...

It does go so fast so just hang on to every. little. moment. I listened in RS yesterday to young mothers about how hard it was, and really I was having a hard time remembering how hard it was and I only had 2. You are such a good mom and do so many fun things with them and trust me that will be what they will remember. Well they might remember things you wish they would forget but that's Ok too. Just keep on keeping on!

Sara said...

You are a good Mom & good example!!
I am glad we were able to see you guys :)

melanie said...

You are a WONDERFUL mother!! The good doesn't necessarily outnumber the hard but it certainly outweighs it!! Love you Heidi.

threelittlebackseatdrivers.blogspot.com said...

Such honesty...love it. I love when little things happen or people step in to remind me that it's all worth it...esp. on those days with so many messes and poop and throw up...gah! :) You are a great inspiration...thanks for the awesome post! :)

ericksonzone said...

I'm so glad your mom and Sara came to the rescue. We have those days and it is really hard to come out of them with momentum to keep going sometimes.